Stop trying to figure it out

There is a particular situation, involving a boy, that i've been wasting too much time trying to figure out what is going on and how God is working. I felt like God is telling me to quit worrying and thinking about it and trust in God that he is in control and that he knows what is best for me. I should also pray for enlightenment and if he wants me too know what is going on, then he will tell me.